Note: I want to make it absolutely clear that I have no problem with NejiHina as a ship, as anyone who's seen any of my KabuHinaNeji crackverse things should know. My problem has a very different source.
And it has everything to do with Kishimoto being a sexist ass who can't handle his female characters properly
And it has everything to do with Kishimoto being a sexist ass who can't handle his female characters properly